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Day 320: Changing what I Accept and Allow

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Here are the self corrective statements in relation to the previous blog : When and as I see myself justifying as back chats within my mind of 'they do it, I can do it too' in relation to accepting and allowing myself to go into emotional reactions - I stop and I breathe and I wave a red flag here for myself as I see/realize/understand that I have gone past the point of stopping the reaction and within this, am excusing my reason as to why I am right to participate within the reaction and so within such a stage, I commit myself to stop myself immediately, do not accept and allow myself to justify what I am participating in and take back the responsibility I have to who I am here and what I accept and allow within each of my moments so I commit myself to stop myself when I see I am emotionally reacting and to instead breathe as to calm and stabilize myself and to ultimately take responsibility for what I am accepting and allowing within/as me in firstly allowing the reacti...

319: Am I the Shepherd or the Sheep?

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This blog is a continuation of the points mentioned in the previous one - 'Why is the World Not Changing' . I saw this point within myself; seeing how I was justifying my behavior, my reactions, my emotional possessions and in reality, my unwillingness to stop and change myself, based on other's behavior and reactions. The problem within this is obviously depending upon another to change - defining myself according to how another moves - thinking and believing 'if they are not doing it, I don't have to either' and so nothing changes because the responsibility is, through my own acceptance and allowance, abdicated and separated from me here and placed unto/as another. This will never work. Obviously, if you want something done, you do it yourself. If you see changes 'should be made', you make the changes. If you are waiting for someone else to act, why not YOU be the example. What simple principles to apply/live/walk that produce real changes with...