460: Change and Creation - Slowly, but Surely
Not long along I began writing about an experience I had in relation to quick fixes, and instant gratification – where frequently I could see my starting point for doing something, or changing something, or applying a new habit, or stopping an old one, was existing within the point of desire – wanting it to happen NOW. I realized, through writing about this, that change doesn’t happen like that. It’s a process. That’s why we call what we do within Desteni a process – because it takes time . It takes discipline, and commitment, and application daily to change yourself; a habit, an addiction, a pattern, a routine , an experience. We have space and time to work with – and while I could see this not long ago, it has come up again for me to re-visit. What does it mean to create? We often fixate ourselves on the end result – the desire to have or be someone different… and we focus on that as being the most important part, when in reality – it’s the process. It’s the physical actio...