517: Don't Just Ignore What Actually Happened!
I have for long believed when there are conflicts or disagreements with others, you just simply don't talk about it - at least not the real stuff... I have in moments of conflict or argument gone silent - sometimes for day, and then after some time simply engage with the person again yet without speaking of what had happened. To me this is suppression, and does not nurture real relationships . We must be able to address what happened, what is going on, deal with it, forgive it, and let it go... we must become solution-oriented people, and that starts with being willing to face and acknowledge the issues, and not run away from them, pretend they don't exists, and hope they will just go away I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to avoid communication with others when there has been a disagreement or conflict I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to ignore and suppress the play-outs of conflict with others, and after not talking for aw...