Day 36 - Love Games of Manipulation
The games we play ‘in love’. “I’m not going to call him back right away… make him miss me more.” “I’m not going to answer his call… make him wonder what I’m doing” “I’m not going to see him for a couple days… make him worry about me” With these back chats in mind – this is how we manipulate others within love. We believe these tactics with keep the person interested… keep them wanting more as we are playing ‘hard to get’. Which is just a fancy way of saying, “I play the game of manipulation” We attempt to control others and their feelings through giving them less then what we think they want. How do we know it works? Because when it is done unto us – we keep a closer eye… we fear losing this thing we call love, and we tie the rope tighter. We want more… it works every time. How to get ‘love’? Play the game of manipulation and reel ‘em in. Is this best for all? Obviously not – as we are then just playing games, attempting to control others and not being real with ourselves...