659: Do you Hear what they are Really Saying?

Here a point where I sometimes find myself annoyed or impatient in moments of communicating with others - not wanting to hear what they are speaking about, feeling like they are wasting my time - especially if I think what they are saying "doesn't matter" or is irrelevant to what we are actually trying to do...

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to give up my time for others

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to give others a moment of my time in really hearing them out and being present with them instead of waiting for them to stop speaking so I can move on with what I was doing

I forgive myself that I have  not accepted and allowed myself to be interested in others' words and expressions instead of learning to stop and investigate what matters in matters

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to write most people off as selfish and not worth my time as thinking and believing 'they' mostly speak about things that don't matter instead of listening to their words and in my presence and silence, HEAR what they are actually saying as what is beneath the surface of what we are presenting to others as our words

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to project the idea that what others say is not important instead of asking myself if I think that about myself

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define myself and my words as that which doesn't matter

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to give myself the attention and time as really hearing myself out to get to know and understand what is here

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to think and believe I can walk alone within this world in thinking others will only hold me back or pull me down instead of realizing I may be the one to support and uplift and that I do not have to fear others holding me back or pulling me down as I am directive principle of/as myself and if I get held back or pulled down it is from my own doing

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to realize I do not have to fear being influenced by others as I have already proven to myself I am willing to walk alone

When and as I see myself not giving others the time of day as not wanting to hear them out or listen to them, I stop and I breathe. I see, realize, and understand this is a reaction to the belief that others will hold me back or pull me down and that I do not have to fear others holding me back or pulling me down and that perhaps I am here to support others to move forward and to pull themselves up and so I commit myself to stop avoiding/hiding/resisting spending more time with others and instead embrace others as the realization that we must change together, all as ONE as Equals

I commit myself to practice giving people the time as my presence to really HEAR what they have to say as to Hear what is actually here for them so that I may better support them here

I commit myself to give myself permission to hear others in a moment of the day and to to be willing to STOP in the moment to hear them out as valuing what matters in matter



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